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A Gratitude Nighttime Routine

Evenings are usually the best time to develop a good habit of taking stock of the highlights of your day. Gratitude journaling helps you notice, acknowledge, and reflect on those special moments, simple or momentous, that have enriched your day.

Make nighttime gratitude journaling more productive by keeping these objectives in mind.

Write Your Day’s Highlights

Noteworthy moments don’t always have to be unusual or “Ah-mazing!” They can be simple occasions that bring you a smile, a sense of peace, or a feeling of goodwill.

When you write down your day’s highlights, you count your blessings, backward. Instead of launching directly into what to be grateful for, take time to list down what moments were special, think about them, and recognize what they gave you to be grateful for.

Focusing on daily highlights gives you important insights. But you will only recognize the worth of your experiences with consistent daily reflection. You may start with a short list, but as you keep writing your highlights daily, your list will begin to look better and better.  

At the end of every month, review your list to see how you have been personally developing by just being thankful and seeing the good in life daily. Notice how your new habit is helping your relationships with yourself, family, friends, and workmates become so much better.   

Acknowledge Life’s Daily Lessons

A day’s highlight may not always present itself as a pleasant incident. But unpleasant situations can teach lessons of, say, self-awareness or courage.

Learning from your daily setbacks and challenges could well be your secret to success and emotional health. Write how these adversities are shaping you so you can see value in being grateful for them.

Gauge Aspects of Your Day

When journaling, reflect on every aspect of your day. Pay particular attention to your emotional state in those aspects. Ask yourself: “What went right?”, “What went wrong?” and “What can you improve?”. Your answers will help you use your experiences for personal growth and positive change.

 

Your nighttime gratitude routine will help you see the good in things, rise to challenges, and live with purpose. Focus on the highlights of the day, the daily lessons you can glean, and the improvements you can make. This habit will grant you the option to gain control and responsibility for your own life. 


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